woman empowerment

When you educate a man, you educate an individual

But when you educate a woman, you educate a whole family

It is truly said but still woman education system in India is nor gearing up as expected. Government is trying very hard for the uplifting of woman by creating new schemes for woman empowerment at the centre as well at the state level. Government is providing free sanitation, education scholarship at various levels exclusively for woman.
But all these efforts of government is in vain. They are not producing the desired result because irrespective of the government thinking and motive behind the woman education, families have their own mind set and priority. They say that if we send our girl child to study then who will do the daily chores of the house. They also believe that at last woman has to do CHAUKA BARTAN when they get married therefore it is not necessary to teach them.
If you think it as the worst ideology of a parent then hey wait i have not finished yet. There are places in India where parents and relatives celebrate the birth of a female child in the family. Surprised, if yes, Read further. They do not belong to the slot who gives emphasis on girl education and empowerment but they are the one who always wants woman to remain in their shoes. So why are they celebrate their births? They celebrate the birth not because of the respect for the female but because they get a new earning member in their family. They are happy as they a new social worker between themselves. The newer the worker the better it is for the business. In straight forward way they forcefully turn the female infants of their families into PROSTITUTES at a mere age of 14 years.
Shocking and bitter isn’t? But as it is said that truth is always bitter. We live in a country where people worship the stoned statue of goddesses so that all their wrong deeds can be taken care of and we turn the living goddesses into prostitute and still believe that yah all my sins will be washed by praying to the goddesses. We give full respect to a stoned statue but why cannot see the pain we are giving to our own child.

Men are allowed to have the passion and commitment for their work,

A woman is allowed to have that feeling for a man, but not for her work.

We have been taking about the equal rights given to both the genders but are we serious in carrying out them at the same time. I do not think so. It is really difficult for a woman to get her rights and a very simple reason for that is:
IT IS VERY DIFFICULT FOR A WOMAN TO BE HERSELF IN THE SOCIETY OF PRESENT DAY, WHICH IS EXCLUSIVELY MASCULINE SOCIETY, WITH LAWS FRAMED BY MEN AND WITH A JUDICIAL SYSTEM THAT JUDGES FEMININE CONDUCT FROM A MASCULINE POINT OF VIEW.
Ever since the birth a girl is being told that  TU TO PARAYA DHAN HAI EK DIN APNE GHAR CHALI JAYEGI. Whenever there is need of a sacrifice in the family girls are first and last option family members have. It feels like adding salt to wounds when this situation is supported by the mother , who in their earlier days have tasted this agony. The misery of a woman never ends. During the childhood days it is she who is asked to leave her schooling, her dreams so that his brother can study. We always woman to sacrifice their basic need for the sake of family and relation but have you ever seen a male child is asked to make sacrifice for their family. I think that is the reason behind the saying that
WOMAN BECOME LIKE THEIR MOTHER AND THAT IS THEIR TRAGEDY.
A woman after her marriage is mutilated by her in laws. She joins a new family with a better hope but aghast she did not receive her due respect here. They face the molestation and agony on the name of dowry.
On one side woman in our country is amongst the most powerful and influential personality of the world, whiles on the other side they are woman who are being deprived of their basic needs. Few women are making government which is running the country whereas many of them act like a ………..by now you may be blaming the man dominated society for the poor condition of woman. I do not accept this as the reason behind their situation. Women are self responsible for their suffering because they never realize their true potential.

WOMEN ARE LIKE TEA BAGS,

YOU CANNOT TELL HOW STRONG THEY ARE

UNTIL YOU PUT THEM IN HOT WATER

I can only say that it is up to the generation Y of the female to decide their destiny. For you I will say that
YOU MAY ENCOUNTER DEFEATS, BUT YOU MUST NOT BE DEFEATED.
But are we so blind or is it our thrust for money or any other reason behind this creuality and inhuman act.
At last I would say that no government, no god can help you. It is entirely up to how you want to live in the society. Just waiting and watching that someday somebody will take an AVTAAR and come for your rescue will do no good for you. The sooner you realize this the better it is for you. It is time to get up, tie your shoe and take a stand that enough is enough and everything has an end. Therefore it should end here.
I was not taking about the article though I am ending it.